If you had the chance to move across the globe, and live in another country for four months, would you do it?
This past January I returned home from Marists study abroad program in Florence, Italy. I spent a semester thousands and thousands of miles away from my hometown in New Jersey.
Studying abroad was an adventure I had always thought about embarking on during my college career. Even though this seemed very exciting, I did have hesitations and worries about moving so far away from home at age 20.
Junior, Meredith Shaffer also decided to study abroad last semester in Florence. She says, “I was super homesick the first few weeks in Italy. I missed my friends and family so much, but I knew it was going to get better. I was worried about not finding comfort in being so far away, but eventually I did.”

I can imagine that students, including myself, in the same position felt the exact same way as Shaffer did. I personally did not want to let my worries get in the way of this opportunity. I knew that the experience would help me grow as a person and allow me to experience things that I could never experience on a college campus.
Studying abroad in Europe allowed me to experience the world as my own classroom. Rather than learning from books or browsing the Internet, I had the ability to navigate a completely new way of living. I was exposed to new history, culture, and a landscape that eventually taught me more than I could ever imagine.
Though moving across the world for months at a time can seem scary to some, it was comforting for me to know other students in the Marist study abroad program. I fortunately knew a few familiar faces that were going to be living in Florence as well, but I desired to put myself out there and meet new people.
Throughout my abroad journey I realized how difficult it can be to meet new people and make new friends, especially when you’re not in your comfort zone. “I decided to room with people that I didn’t know previously,” Sophomore Gia Pares stated. She continued, “I was always eager to meet new people at Marist, but I was also excited to develop relationships with individuals from other parts of the world.”
Communicating with new people from around the world on a daily basis encouraged me to become more confident. I tested language barriers and threw myself into seemingly uncomfortable situations where I did not know my surroundings. I grew as a person because of the places and people I encountered.
“I loved meeting new people abroad, but also traveling to new places. I would say that traveling was my favorite part about being in Florence. It was easy to do and I will never forget the beauty of the places that me and my friends went to,” said Shaffer.
I also found happiness in traveling to other destinations around Europe. I traveled to France, Croatia, Barcelona, Brussels, Munich, and so many more unbelievable places.
“You forget about the fact that you’re still in school,” said Pares, “We found the time to travel when we got all of our work done.”

It was sometimes challenging to balance school and life during my time in Italy. There were so many amazing places to travel to, museums to visit, restaurants to eat at, and people to meet.
Focusing on schoolwork was an extremely large priority of mine. Therefore, in order to establish a sense of balance I really had to manage my time well. Most of the traveling that we did was during the weekend, but this was more than enough time to get to see all of these incredible places.
Visiting new countries every other weekend allowed students to get a glimpse of the world. Though we could not spend weeks at a time in these various locations, we were still able to grasp the beauty of each individual place.
“I feel like study abroad and traveling on the weekends was a great preview to the rest of the world. I know know of the places I have to go back and visit later in life,” said Shaffer. She went on to say, “There are also little things about Florence I already miss, like living in my apartment, going to the coffee shop on my street, and talking to familiar workers in local shops.”
There are so many moments about studying abroad that I personally miss every single day. I developed a consistent routine throughout my weeks spent in Florence.
Each morning I would walk to a café 3 blocks over to get a cappuccino and croissant. I would see the same faces each morning and develop friendships with the staff.
I would go to class Monday through Thursday and mingle with students from other schools across the United States. I would also spend 6 hours every single Tuesday in a painting studio, learning how to improve my skills from an incredible Italian sculptor and artist.
“Me and my friends would a visit the same restaurants, because the food was so delicious- we couldn’t stay away. And we had our favorite bars and clubs we would do dance at,” added Pares.
Similar to student Gia Pares, I consistently returned to my favorite spots around Florence, and hope to one day return to revisit them.
It is completely unreal to think about the fact that I was able to live a whole other life then I am living right now. All in the short time span of four months I learned about new cultures, foods, art, and most importantly I learned a lot about myself.
I lived a great life in Italy, and conquered the fears I had upon my arrival. Throughout my time there I was able to develop a routine that I was so afraid of not having. All of my worries and doubts about living so far away from home disappeared the second I got comfortable living in Europe.
I will never forget the people I met and the places I experienced. I encourage every single student at Marist College to study abroad if they can. Just because something may seem scary or uncomfortable does not mean we shouldn’t give it a try.
By stepping outside of my comfort zone and going for something I wanted I was able to create memories that will last a lifetime.
“Studying abroad was a great opportunity to discover myself while also gaining a wider understanding of the world we live in,” exclaimed Shaffer.









